Wedding Policy
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The CVAC building is available for weddings and receptions. An application must be filled out for consideration by the church board at least four (4) weeks prior to the date desired. Applications for use of the sanctuary will be considered for both members of CVAC, and non-members. Approved applicants must agree to abide by the following policy:

1. Governing Principle: Wedding ceremonies held within our facility are to be held to a standard of simplicity and dignity. This wedding policy is established to bring clarity and fairness to the process of using the church building. Per order of local codes we are allowed a maximum of 250 people in the church building. All issues and ideas cannot be foreseen. Written special requests will be considered at the time of application.

2. The Couple: Our sanctuary is dedicated to the worship of Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. All weddings will be Christian and the couple married must be off the same faith group.

3. Officiating Minister: It is the responsibility of the officiating minister to ensure that the couple can be legally married according to the state and Biblical guidance given in the current Seventh-day Adventist Church Manual, published by the General Conference of Seventh-day Adventist’s. The officiating minister must be legally qualified to perform weddings in the State of Connecticut. A marriage license must be secured from the South Windsor Town Hall, on Sullivan Avenue. This marriage license must be in hand, at the church, at the time of the wedding.

4. Pre-marital Counseling: The officiating minister must provide a signed statement of proof that pre-marital counseling sessions have occurred, and that the couple has been alerted to the responsibilities of marriage to one another, the church, and their community.

5. Ceremony Arrangements: It is the responsibility of the couple to make arrangement for the ceremony (and reception) including pastoral service, organist, musicians, decorations, etc.

6. Rehearsal: To avoid conflicts with other church activities, the rehearsal date and time must be approved on the Wedding Application. Rehearsals may not be conducted during the Sabbath hours. If the officiating minister in not the CVAC pastor then a deacon will need to be present.

7. Respect & Reverence: The thrill of a wedding brings great joy and happiness, but dignity should permeate both the rehearsal and wedding ceremony. We ask that the dress of participants be modest. We ask that the building be respected by using no tacks or nails or any damaging tape on the walls, woodwork, or pews. We ask that no rice or confetti be used inside the church or on the church grounds. We ask that candles, if used, be dripless, and concern for safety be a major concern in their placement. No smoking is permitted, nor the use of alcohol.

8. Music: All music performed in the wedding ceremony should be dignified and bring glory to God. Musical selections are to be submitted for approval to the CVAC Pastor no later than four (4) weeks prior to the wedding date. The couple is responsible for securing and remunerating the musicians.

9. Restoration of Sanctuary: The present platform furniture may be moved. The moving of the Grand Piano is not an option. It is the responsibility of the wedding party to ensure the building is restored to its normal condition within 24 hours of use. The couple is to assume full pecuniary liability for all damages to church property resulting from the rehearsal or wedding day use.

10. Wedding Fees:

Sanctuary:

  • Refundable Damage Deposit $250.00

Rehearsal:

  • CVAC Members No Charge

  • Non-Members $25.00

  • Deacon Fee* $25.00

Wedding:

  • CVAC Members No Charge

  • Non-Members $150.00

  • Deacon Fee* $25.00

* The Deacon Fee’s are paid by all wedding parties and rehearsals. These fees cover a period of four (4) hours for each event. Should the deacon be on duty more that four hours, then each additional hour or part there of will be charged at a rate of $10 per hour. This extra hour fee will be deducted from the refundable damage deposit, if applicable.

All fees and deposit must be paid one month prior to the wedding date. The check for the Refundable Damage Deposit should be separate from the check for other feeds. The checks should be made out to the "Connecticut Valley Adventist Church", and mailed to the address at the top of the application.

The Damage Deposit will be returned if no damage is done to the building or grounds.

Members who leave the building unclean and out of order, but undamaged will lose the cost of cleaning from their Damage Deposit.

The Fellowship Hall is available for the use of Wedding Receptions. The Policy and Application for the use of the Fellowship Hall should be obtained and sent in at the time of the Wedding Application.

Policy Approved February, 1997
Updated 10 August 98

 

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